Sex Club: 5 Week Online Course - Edition III
- Tue 8th Feb 2022, 7pm – Tue 8th Mar 2022, 9:30pm UK time (UTC +00:00)
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In the Sex Club Courses Edition I and Edition II, we noticed the excitement and need of the group to share and hear explicit details of each other’s sexual encounters as a learning experience. With Edition III, as with every course we create a playful, vulnerable and brave space for us to inquire into our sexuality while adding to it by harnessing that exciting explicit energy.
In a supportive and non-judgemental container you can practise verbalising the kind of details that are not easy to share in terms of insecurities as much as pleasures. Being explicit in your communication in a low stakes environment will make you feel comfortable in being explicit with your lovers and partners about:
- How do you want to be touched, with mouth or hands? How does it feel?
- What are your fantasies?
- What does authentic sex talk sound like?
- What makes penetration enjoyable and how can you intensify your experience by slowing down?
- As well as picking up some resources and exercises to continue practising at home.
★★★★★ “When someone says a course 'changed their life' I can't resist feeling extremely sceptical. But this course offers opportunities for reflection and openness that - after taking part - feel fundamental. Jules and Conor do an excellent job of gently guiding, leading by example, and putting clear boundaries in place, while never crowding the space or proselytising.” - Bo Keeney.
★★★★★ “AMAZING. Simply amazing. Jules & Conor were incredible space holders for the vulnerable topics of inquiry presented. I learned so much about myself during this course; the most unexpected result was developing a much greater sense of self-love and trust. This is for EVERYONE. I was so nervous signing up but I'm so glad I did. 6 weeks later, my life is absolutely changed!” - Jordann A.
ABOUT THE COURSE
Every week you get to self-inquiry and learn from others about:
- Week 1: TOUCH, SOUND & BREATH - We explore the difference between touch that electrifies us and touch that leaves us untouched. From simple exercises to exchange of experiences that will help you to expand pleasure from your genitals to your entire body.
- Week 2: FANTASY & SEX TALK - When do fantasies elevate your sexual experience and when do they take you out of the moment. How does it feel to authentically talk sexy?
- Week 3: FOREPLAY - From kissing, to hand jobs, to oral sex, we’ll explore the power of connecting with our tongues, mouths and hands, and how to communicate gently how we want to be stimulated and caressed before and during sex.
- Week 4: PENETRATION - What makes the difference between a feeling of union and a painful or numb experience?
- Week 5: SLOW SEX - Just like a film in slow motion, we explore how we can discover new details, new intensities of pleasure because we whizzed passed them previously.
As with every Sex Club it works on multiple levels. You have the opportunity to:
- Practise speaking about sex in a trusted, non-judgemental and low stakes environment
- Hear and learn from other peoples’ learnings, knowledge and experience
- Process your sexuality and translate your experience into words
- Inquiry into your desires and fears, and through awareness acquire agency to change patterns that don’t serve you anymore
- Connect with likeminded people and join the Sex Club Community
★★★★★ "The course stirred up things that weren't even in my consciousness and allowed me to release some deep stored emotions. Having the space to explore my own needs and desires, hearing others sharing and seeing things from a male perspective was eye opening, freeing and has given me a lot to work on. The energy created from these course is special. I experience big shifts from this work and I am incredibly grateful to Jules and Conor for the safe space they hold and for modelling vulnerability and openness. I can't recommend this course enough. In fact I've recommended it to clients, friends and colleagues, some of which have attended and have had positive experiences to share. - Binta Patel - Personal Development Coach
Over the 5 week period we will create a container together where through shared vulnerability and a commitment to each other we’ll create group trust so it will feel safe to go deeper into our experiences, de-armour insecurities and shame through exposure and find new confidence and comfort in ourselves as sexual beings.
We will take you through group exercises and inquiries inspired by ancient wisdom and modern psychology. Whilst we will offer a framework of exercises, this course very much focuses on tapping into the collective knowledge and experience of the group. No one has figured out how to do sex or intimacy, yet we’ve all learned something along the way. These learnings we’ll share, and piece together the puzzle of our ever evolving sexuality, whilst creating a sense of community and deep connection to your fellow explorers on the way. The space will be held safely yet bravely. It is confidential and we each share only what we feel to share.
IS THIS FOR YOU?
This course is fully inclusive and valuable to everyone regardless of relationship status or model you’re in, age (18+), ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation and experience, religious beliefs, income and otherwise. No previous experience in Sex Club or similar workshops is required. Join by yourself, with your friend(s), lover(s), partner(s).
Although this course can be therapeutic, it is not therapy. Whilst we set up a container that enables trust and honesty, we ask everyone to take responsibility for their experience. Please speak to your therapist if you have experienced abuse or trauma through touch or otherwise before you decide to take this course.
** You don't need to have attended Edition I or II to attend Edition III **
★★★★★ “The course empowered us both individually and as a couple. It allowed us to explore and create a safe atmosphere to have conversations we’d previously not had together. Conor and Jules did a wonderful job of creating a safe, meaningful space. Giving both us and the whole group permission to open up in a really authentic way. Recommended for couples looking to find new depths in their relationships.” Abby K. & Joe F.
DATES & TIMES
From 7:00 - 9:30pm (BST) on Tuesday 8th, 15th, 22nd February, 1st, 8th March 2022. Zoom Room will open at 6:50pm (GMT). To create a safe space with no disruptions no entry will be possible after 7:00pm (GMT).
Sex Club is a not-for-profit. At this time, more than ever, we want Sex Club to be accessible to everyone, regardless of income. If you are a high earner please consider the Supporter Ticket which sponsors people with low income. We have a limited amount of concession tickets available for people with no income, please apply for a concession ticket at firstname.lastname@example.org with your motivation to join the course
ABOUT YOUR FACILITATORS
★★★★★ "Jules and Conor held the space beautifully and created an environment where I could share things I'd never spoken about before. They also encouraged us and created a framework for us to feel into how much was right to share at any moment, to stay in the learning zone rather than the panic zone or comfort zone. Lots of depth, and also lightness and joy" - Emilia M.
★★★★★ “Excellently held. As one of 20+ online participants, the virtual space was held so well that we were all able to embrace vulnerability in order to share, release and grow. A powerful sharing space where everyone was committed and there for the same truth.” - Alasdair K.
I am a facilitator of transformational spaces, community builder and artist developing holistic structures and processes that further our collective evolution.
Sexual liberation is at the heart of individual transformation, without which there can be no meaningful societal progress. To this end, I have co-founded Sex Club in 2017. A group space where peers inquire into their relationship with their sexuality, exchange knowledge and experiences, to learn from each other and deliberately develop.
I have co-founded and lived in an intentional community project in London for 4 years, developing frameworks for group process work and community maintenance. I consult on collective experience design at festivals, artist residencies and co-working environments on how to build true community, amongst others The Psychedelic Society, of which I became a co-director in December 2019. My artistic and personal enquiry is the authentic expression of self through creativity, intellect, emotion and sexuality. I spent 10 years in the corporate tech industry before my calling into the not-for-profit sector and I remembered that I'm an artist, as we all are.
I’m a psychologist trained as a counsellor and coach. I design group processes and offer one-to-one sessions to help people to deepen their self awareness and return to their natural state of ease and flow.
I’ve been leading Sex Club with Juliane since the beginning and I’ve found it deeply touching to see the impact it has had for participants on the courses and in the workshops.
My background is in psychology with a B.A. in psychology and an MSc in behaviour change, I’ve also trained as a holistic counsellor.
David Chambers - Authentic Dating Podcast:
★★★★★ - WOW.... Just WOW. So much fun, so insightful, so open, accepting and the space was so well held. Met some amazing people and we discuss topics that i hadn't thought I would be interested in. I can't wait to the next one. My only complaint is that I wish it was all day. :)
Amy Cooper - Secret Seed Society:
★★★★★ - I have taken part in these conversational Sex Clubs before and found them really fascinating, safe, reassuring, enlightening, lightening, stimulating and opening I recommend them. It is not therapy but it is therapeutic, it is not about kinks or being straight or queer, it's whatever the group brings. The variety makes the conversation richer and the difference between us has always seemed to be reassuring. Come if you have sex, come if you don't have sex, come if you feel convinced you know something about sex and would like to share, come if you have no idea what questions you would ask about sex or what you would share. My take home was that we navigate sex for ourselves and can find inspiration and connection from others. Try it..."
Mark Wagner - MKII:
★★★★★ - What a blessing to have discovered Sex Club! A sharing circle where we can finally impart our experience, thoughts and feelings on a theme that concerns all of us: Sexuality. Staying well clear of personal judgement, opinions and dogma the atmosphere is warm and welcoming and most importantly acceptant of one and all. For me personally, the 'session' facilitated the integrated realisation that from here on, the evolution of my sexuality was intricately connected to my ability to communicate about sexuality.... So what better place to start than Sex Club!"
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