Sex Club: Kink - Exchanging Knowledge & Experience Online · Dandelion

Sex Club: Kink - Exchanging Knowledge & Experience Online

Hosted by The Psychedelic Society
Activity Sex Club
When Tue 9th Jun 2020, 7pm – 9:30pm UK time (UTC +01:00)
Location Online
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★★★★★ - A much needed and safe space to share experiences, anxieties and celebrations regarding sex, desire and intimacy. I leave thinking how the world and our communities could be different if we were all able to share our vulnerabilities more freely with each other. - Liz C.

The current situation calls us to connect deeply to ourselves, to slow down, to be very boundaried and to communicate authentically. This is the perfect opportunity to explore what you want, and how to talk about it to make it happen in ways that take care of yourself and others.

Join us for a new Sex Club edition on Kink. And when we say kink, what do we mean? What do you think of? Who decided what kink is anyway?  Find out for yourself in a facilitated conversational space around kink, open to anyone interested in exploring what kink means to them, regardless of experience, co-hosted by Lorrianne Clarke, who's been exploring and living her kinks for many years.

Kink, domination, fetish, bondage, BDSM, play, spanking, submission, power play; There are so many terms we may have come across, and so many images in mind for what we think kink should look like from the media, usually leather clad, half hidden, and mystified, or utterly demonised. 

The language around kink alone can make it seem inaccessible, made for those with a wardrobe full of latex and a love for acronyms. However, when we start to understand that kink is just an experience of tuning into what turns us on and getting honest about it, we can start to invite more pleasure and curiosity into our lives. 

There is a spectrum of kinky fun to have, and by exploring it together and creating more space to talk about it, we can start peeling away the shame around what we think the erotic should be. Sex Club: Kink will be a non-judgemental and supported conversational space to shine some light on kink, so we can all learn more about how to tune into ourselves, and bring our fantasies to life with awareness, communication and safe practice! 

“Just erotic. Nothing kinky. It's the difference between using a feather and using a chicken.” Terry Pratchett.

You will get to:
★ Explore and talk about your kink(s), sexuality and desires in juicy detail
★ Learn from the experience & knowledge of others
★ Connect with like-minded people and make new friends


We believe that sharing experiences and becoming comfortable with talking about our sexuality is a first step to experiencing deeper intimacy and a more connected sex life. Join by yourself, with your friend(s), lover(s), partner(s).

Participants will be invited to a shared resource document and to join a closed Facebook Group to continue to share and exchange experiences and knowledge. 

Sex Club is a non-profit. At this time, more than ever, we want Sex Club to be accessible to everyone, regardless of income. Please email us at with your motivation to join, if your income has fallen away due to the current situation or other reasons. We offer different tiers, free and discounted tickets. The Supporter Tier is sponsoring tickets on low or no income. We're all in the same boat <3


The space will be held safely yet bravely. It is confidential and we each share only what we feel to share. Everyone is welcome, regardless of age, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, experience, religious beliefs, and otherwise.

18:45 - 19:00 Welcome & Arrival
19:00 - 20:15 Sex Club Part 1
20:15 - 20:30 Break
20:30 - 21:30 Sex Club Part 2

ZOOM ROOM OPENS OPEN: 18:45 (London, UK, GMT+1)
NO ENTRY AFTER: 19:00 (London, UK, GMT+1)
To avoid disruption to the event, latecomers will not be admitted. 


REFUND POLICY: Please note that we can not offer refunds. We do encourage swapping or reselling tickets on Ticketswap

Did you know Members of the Psychedelic Society get 10% off all our events? Join from £5 a month and become part of this amazing community with invites to special events and more!


David Chambers - Authentic Dating Podcast:
★★★★★ - WOW.... Just WOW. So much fun, so insightful, so open, accepting and the space was so well held. Met some amazing people and we discuss topics that i hadn't thought I would be interested in. I can't wait to the next one. My only complaint is that I wish it was all day. :)

Amy Cooper - Secret Seed Society:
★★★★★ - I have taken part in these conversational Sex Clubs before and found them really fascinating, safe, reassuring, enlightening, lightening, stimulating and opening I recommend them. It is not therapy but it is therapeutic, it is not about kinks or being straight or queer, it's whatever the group brings. The variety makes the conversation richer and the difference between us has always seemed to be reassuring. Come if you have sex, come if you don't have sex, come if you feel convinced you know something about sex and would like to share, come if you have no idea what questions you would ask about sex or what you would share. My take home was that we navigate sex for ourselves and can find inspiration and connection from others. Try it..."

Mark Wagner - MKII: 
★★★★★ - What a blessing to have discovered Sex Club! A sharing circle where we can finally impart our experience, thoughts and feelings on a theme that concerns all of us: Sexuality. Staying well clear of personal judgement, opinions and dogma the atmosphere is warm and welcoming and most importantly acceptant of one and all. For me personally, the 'session' facilitated the integrated realisation that from here on, the evolution of my sexuality was intricately connected to my ability to communicate about sexuality.... So what better place to start than Sex Club!"

Refunds: Please note, we do not arrange refunds or exchanges. When possible we encourage reselling on Ticketswap.
Access: Our UK events are intended for a sober audience.  

Members of the Psychedelic Society get 10% off all our events.
Join from £5 a month and become part of this amazing community with invites to special events and more.


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