Seeing That Frees by Rob Burbea

Chapter 24: Emptiness Views and the Sustenance of Love

Introduction to Emptiness and Love

The relationship between insights into emptiness and the cultivation of qualities such as mettā (loving-kindness) and compassion is established as one of natural compatibility. The understanding of emptiness, which dissolves clinging and the rigid sense of self, promotes a sense of non-separation that is conducive to love, compassion, and generosity. Through the practices of emptiness, practitioners become less contracted, and their hearts open, leading to a richer capacity for compassion and less self-centered living.

Loosening the Self-View

Imagination and self-view are intricately connected, and since there isn't a fixed way a self has to be, individuals can skilfully imagine themselves as heroes or bodhisattvas enduring difficulties for the benefit of all beings. This imaginative play, mixed with the understanding of emptiness, enhances the heart's capacity for devotion and transformation. Each experience of dukkha, then, becomes a fertile ground for both personal growth and the amplification of qualities such as mettā and compassion.

Mettā, Compassion, and Emptiness

Emptiness practices can be incorporated into mettā and compassion practices, enriching and strengthening the qualities of love. By integrating views of impermanence (anicca) and non-self (anattā) while directing loving-kindness to another person, one can simultaneously develop insights and foster a deeper sense of love. As less self is constructed, the natural arising of love is supported, and the practices feed into each other, revealing the profound connection between releasing clinging and the growth of heart qualities.

Emptiness and the Perception of the Other

The perception of the other can also be informed by emptiness, particularly when faced with negative emotions such as anger or judgment. By asking "Who am I angry with exactly?" and deconstructing the other, the fabricated solidity of the other's self is questioned, causing ill-will to dissipate. Emptiness can bring about a realization of our shared humanity and the equality of our experiences, melting away the barriers that fuel judgment and allowing for feelings of warmth and friendship to emerge.

Deepening Practices of Love with Emptiness

Further exploration into the union of emptiness practices and those of love reveals that doing so can lead to a "non-referential love," a profound experience where the object of love dissolves. This state is distinguishable from universal love that has all beings as its object; it involves the perception of emptiness itself that induces a transcendent experience of love. By leveraging the full spectrum of love's manifestations, ranging from personal love to impersonal states, practitioners can appreciate the totality of love's expressions and integrate emptiness to their commitment to serve all beings.

Conclusions on Emptiness, Love, and Giving

In summary, the chapter elucidates that the view of emptiness not only supports and deepens the practice of love but also can increasing the joy in giving, such as through dedicating merit or the practice of exchanging self and other. These practices can be enriched by incorporating insights into emptiness, transforming how we perceive ourselves, our giving, and the recipients of our goodwill. Emptiness views can thus be seen as vital for the sustenance of love, equanimity, and the altruistic dedication to others' welfare.